Nice guy game works. Why don’t most nice guys get laid? Because they’re not really nice. They just think that’s how they need to act to get sex. They prostrate themselves for girls because they expect it to lead to sex. Real nice guys are different because they are not needy and do not treat kindness like a transaction. They aren’t performing for approval, and that makes their behavior much more believable. They also don’t panic when a girl doesn’t reward them right away.

Why do real nice guys get laid? Because they’re not needy, they’re just genuinely nice people. I have a couple of friends like this. They don’t get laid as often as a man running asshole game, but they’re not starved for sex the way your typical “nice” guy chump is. Genuine nice guys have self-respect and will call people out when needed. They can be polite without being weak, and that difference changes everything. They know when to give and when to stop giving.

How can you tell the difference between genuine nice guys and chump nice guys? Genuine nice guys have self-respect. They will comply with reasonable requests from anyone, but will call people out on their rudeness whether they’re male or female. Fake nice guys will only call out their male friends, but will let girls walk all over them if they think it’ll lead to sex. They confuse passivity with kindness, and women notice that weakness quickly. That is why the act never works for long.

Think through the nice guys you know. Classify them by real nice vs. fake nice. I guarantee you’ll find that the genuine nice guys have a large number of female friends and don’t struggle for dating options. Girls push, they test your limits. Genuine nice guys HAVE SELF-RESPECT, and for all the nice things they do, they still put a girl in place when she steps out of line. They stay courteous, but they do not become doormats. That balance is what keeps them attractive.